I Don T Know How To Be In A Relationship. Were about 6 months in and she lives with me now due mostly to necessity rather than actually being ready to live together. I know how to be a friend I know how to be a daughter I know how to be a sister but I dont know how to have a partner someone who is included in my day-to-day life someone I go on vacations with and for whom Im willing to travel to some horrible town to meet their parents. New relationships are especially vulnerable to this phenomenon. You dont have to do everything side by side but part of the foundation to a lasting relationship is that you share in lifes joys together on a regular basis.
Whatever the reason is something has led you here so we think its time that you find out if you really want to be in a relationship or not. After all if he doesnt appreciate you now chances are he probably never will. I dont know how to be in an adult relationship I am currently in a relationship with my best friend of many years. And that means that its possible that you may end up in a place where youre no longer interested in your relationship anymore even if you think that you are. Once in a relationship you must have love trust communication loyalty. How do you decide to end a relationship or work on it.
Yes maybe you like a person a lot but if you cant give the relationship 100 or you dont feel as though a relationship is possible right now then you owe it to yourself and others to not get involved.
In the past you may have made excuses for him or just shrugged it off but now you know his behavior is totally unworthy of you. Whatever the reason is something has led you here so we think its time that you find out if you really want to be in a relationship or not. Guess what jumping into a relationship with someone isnt going to help that. Dont go too fast dont go too slow. In the past you may have made excuses for him or just shrugged it off but now you know his behavior is totally unworthy of you. How do you decide to end a relationship or work on it.